The writer Neal Pollack has come out with a new book, Alternadad, on being a hipster and at the same time a new parent. My local weekly came out with an interesting review on the book. Anyone read this book, or any of the other "literary" at-home-dad books that have recently come out?
Neal Pollack's "Alternadad" : a book review

Mark,
This link isn't working. I read a book called Daddy Needs a Drink over the holidays. He writes a column for the Santa Fe Reporter and has done some work on NPR.
I wouldn't call it a "literary" masterwork but it received good reviews from the authors of Running with Scissors and A Girl Named Zippy. It was a book with plenty of good insight on being a dad of young kids.
Most importantly, the book provides lots of good laughs.
I'll let you borrow it if interested.
Jim

I haven't read the Pollack book, but after reading this and a few other reviews, I'll say I'm not interested.
Though a young adult book, The First Part Last, by Angela Johnson, is a great, quick read. It's a novel about a teen father. Highly recommended.
http://anotherathomedad.blogspot.com/
Daddy Needs a Drink sounds like it would be a lot of fun to read, the other one seems like a guy who is trying to hang on to his past.

After reading the reviews and some of the feedback from those reviews, I wanted to read it and decide for myself. The way I see it, it won't really be that different than reading some of the many, many blogs out there. Some are good, some not so good.
I'll post my opinion (review) here when I have finished. Jim, I'll pass it on to you if you are still interested. I would like to borrow Daddy Needs A Drink from you if that is still available. (or I can get it from Mark when he's done!)
Anybody else read or going to read this?
Bri
So I finished Pollack's book and the following is a review of sorts...
As a book on parenting, I liked it because it addresses a lot of the issues first time parents face. If I knew a couple who grew up on indie rock in the '90s, I'd give this to them as a shower gift.
As an-at-home dad, I felt it pandering a little too much to the stereotype we all are trying to get away from.
For example:
"The reason that dads shouldn't whine is because whether you're a dad or not a dad, , your life basically stays the same. It's just a matter of increased responsibility. But once a woman has a baby, she's a mom and the world demands a lot of mom." (the world demands alot of parents!)
he talks about Daddy Time and Momy Time with Daddy Timem being from 3-5pm on weekdays. Until one day he's whittle away the hours and needs until 3:30pm. His wife says he'll get the hour but has to keep the baby until 6pm.
"'No problem,' I said, playing the only card I had, 'I'll give him a bath by myself.'" (no comment)
On finding a preschool for their 18-month old:
"We like Elijah a lot. We just knew that it would be a lot easier for him to like us if we didn't have to take care of him twenty four hours a day." (anyone care to comment on this?)
At another point he bargains getting laid in exchange for getting up early w/ the boy and letting mom sleep in. Damn, I'd be having sex almost every day if that was the case!
Anyway, like i said: its a decent snapshot of what life is like w/ the first couple years w/ your first child.
But it wasn't as funny as I expected it to be, and maybe I was wrong to expect funny from the funny man.
I tried the writing bit for a couple years to keep my brain from turning to mush. I was working on a thriller, but my parents and in-laws kept saying I should write a book about being a full-time dad because my emails to them about the kid's exploits were always a riot. I considered this, but had the suspicion that they thought most of it was funny because it was their grandkids I was writing about. Somehow, knowing the culprits in the story would make it funnier. Well, just yesterday I read a review of Pollack's book in The Week that said essentially the same thing. "Child-rearing stories are seldom as enthralling to other people as they are to the parents who tell them."
But I did read a book several years ago, just before embarking on this new career at home, called House Husband by Ad Hudler that was pretty funny. The title makes me squirm, and it certainly wasn't a true account of what it's like, but it was a good laugh. It's fiction, but loosely based on his own experiences. He clearly took every imaginable predicament a Dad might find himself in and made a tale about it. Hilarious tales in some cases. Everything from having the police chase him out of a neighborhood park to having a floozy mom down the street hitting on him.
(This is my first post here so sorry if this book's already been discussed.)
Wayne H
High Point, NC

Brian,
The book is all yours after Mark reads it. I put it in his hands a few days ago, so he should be done soon. It is a quick read!
I may want to borrow "Alternadad" from you at some point if I can't get it at the local library.
Until our next Fat Tire,
Jim
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