Just a normal day

sfoster
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But not so normal. Maybe it's the fact that I was out of town for several days prior -- lacking kids and wife.

But we went out tonight. We went to a restaurant (kinduva rare treat), had a civilized time (again, rare), ran a few short errands and went window shopping.

Typically, I do the shopping every few days with some of the kids -- wife at work -- to pick up this and that, and to get out of the house. But I think it was just "doing it as a family" -- spending time doing something humdrum as a family. I don't do that often enough.

Came home. Baths. Books. The kids love this part, though I don't know if any of us appreciate it enough. I wonder what they'll say about it all in 30 years. Oh well.

I guess I am thinking about appreciating little, insignificant things. I don't think we need to do this at every given moment. But every now and then, it's kinduva a nice wake-me-up. Anyone else ever have special humdrum times?




New No.2
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It's the quiet moments. I

It's the quiet moments.

I watch the sunset over the subway with my daughter. Sometimes my wife and I make it up to a coffee bar and sit with our little girl and watch the world go by.

It's amazing as we mature we can "let the world happen" rather than feel like we need to make things happen.

Be Seeing You.



JPhillip
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Sometimes.

Sometimes when I let my boys watch tv, I like to watch them. I just sit on the couch and look at their little zombie faces. I like to see their facial expressions change with what is happening on the show. They don't even notice that I am staring at them. But, I like it that way. It's like looking at a living picture album.



ShortBusSpazz
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for me

for me it's when I see the working types in the coffee shop dressed up cell phone in hand with laptop in front of them while I'm wearing cargo pants with kids toys and crayons in the pockets. I have the wiggles on my ipod and stickers on my shirt for being a good dad that day. At that point I always realize how much I enjoy being a stay home dad and not worring about those other things. Not sure how I could handle doing a reagular 9-5 deal again... Do they allow nap breaks?



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