Sick Days - for your wife

PittCaleb
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I pride myself that in 6 years and 8 months of being a full-time stay at home dad, my wife has missed a grand total of 2 hours of work because I couldn't do my job.

As a Director at a major pharmaceutical company with many direct and indirect reports, she deals with, mostly, women who take time off quite often to care for their sick children. Although I may not do the laundry the best or clean the dishes or bathrooms as quickly as she might desire, I pride myself in that she can concentrate on work between 6 Am and 6 PM without worrying about us or the house or any other logistics.

Tuesday at 2 AM our youngest, 3, started vomiting. He threw up 5 times between 2 & 8 AM. This guy is a true moma's boy, unlike y 7 year old. He wants mom's arms and touch. He was so messed up that she stayed home to help him on Tuesday.

Wednesday Lucinda went to work. Sam remained sick and I took him to the Dr during walk-in time (previously they told me to ride it out on the phone). He starts doing better and with spring break and nice weather, we all went to the park twice yesterday.

Lucidna gets home at 5:30 and immediately gets sick - same thing as Sam had. Now I start getting sick and finally succumb at 9:00 (and 10:30 and 2:00, but...). Josh, the 7 year old wakes us up sick at 3 AM.

Seriously, for the first time in our families history, we all got quite sick and in quick succession. Lucinda's actually feeling the best of the 2nd round of ill people. She wanted to go to work today, but having gotten no sleep, a 3 year old who wants to play and Josh also sick as a dog (and self still ill) - I felt it better for her to stay home.

So after over 6.5 years of never having my wife deal with sick kids or a sick husband, she's taking 2 days off this week. All in all, I think I'm still doing quite a good job.

Cheers,
Caleb




Tim E
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sick days

I think my wife has always managed to be away on business trips when any major family illness has swept through. I remember once when the boys were probably about 2 and 4 and the three of us were firing from both muzzles......the wash machine couldn't keep up with the clothes and bedding. Then you get the phone call from several thousand miles away - "so how's it going?" :-) Ahh, good memories. I think DW has taken a couple of days off in my run when I have been really sick - probably just for the protection of the boys though... :-)

Cdn Tim



BackpackingDad
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My wife takes advantage of her sick time

and just uses it on those days when she misses us. Unfortunately, this means that I can't actually take advantage of her being at home to go have some me-time. "Honey, I miss you guys; I'm staying home." "Ok. Here'sthebabyseeya!"

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ticktock
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Bitterness in this house...

My wife lost all her sick days and vacation days so that she could stay home on maternity leave. I still hate those fuc%er$ for doing that $#!t and not giving her an appropriate amount of time to be with the baby.



MileHiDad
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Is It Just Me...

Or is the current case of da' Shitz and Pukz happening later this year? It seems to me in years past, once March hit, "it" had it and gone already, but not this year! Wha'cha thinkin?

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jimpmc
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bitterness here too

My wife lost all of her sick days and personal days. She is a teacher and now those "Mental Health days" cost us money.



New No.2
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My Wife (Not The Who song)

My wife takes sick days if I'm sick, which was only two days this past year.
Our daughter had been sick for a week and after the unpleasant situation with her diaper that I won't recall I was sick too. Run down more like it but I was laid out. She has sick days so she uses them. Being a former negotiator my wife actually negotiated a three month sick leave while she was freelancing! Amazing woman my wife.

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