Goin' camping

sfoster
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Here it is: My oldest son is in Cub Scouts and we are going on a "Family Campout" with about three guhzillion other scouts and their families in a few weeks. I don't really look at this as being a relaxing time for me, since my wife can't come and help. So I will be looking after my 8 year old and both 5 year olds for three days in a sea of canvas roofs (and it is supposed to rain), oh and did I mention that I am an assistant den leader? Fun, fun, fun. Don't ask me how I got into this mess.

The head honchos are bringing most of the food, entertainment, and (I'm betting on) emergency stuff. So my question to you all is this: When bringing three kids (8, 5, and 5) to a Cluster F--- like this, what would you bring? Remember: camping ground, not middle of the forest.

Yes, I have a tent. And Beer. (But since it's a Scouts event, I bet they'll make me choose one over the other. Dammit.)

I know that some of you camp. Any thoughts about a basic "Dad and Kids Camping Survival Kit?"



brianc
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Well, for one...

...and don't take this the wrong way...

Bring a better attitude!

Your kids and everyone else will read it all over your face and in your body language that either you are in some kind of panic mode or that you don't want to be there. Sounds like the honchos got the rest covered. The den leader could probably answer any other questions you have about what to bring.

Relax and take a deep breath!

Remember, your kids are looking up to you and counting on you. You'll probably end up having a great time! And don't worry about the rain. These will be stories you and your kids will be telling for years to come!

Relax and keep it fun!

BrianC



Tim E
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what Brian said!

Like they say - attitude is everything. The weekend will be what you make it.

If you are lucky you will get an hour or two of sleep a night. Be happy you got that, be overjoyed if you get more.

Bring the right clothes for the weather. Bring extra clothes, socks especially - nothing is more miserable than being wet and cold.

Bring cards and simple small games like uno. Its amazing home many kids have never played cards before.

Anyways, just my .02

Have fun!

Cdn Tim (aka Chil)
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Fun stuff

Remember to bring fun stuff like flashlights, glowsticks, and something that will hold bugs to bring home to mom.
Ponchos, insect bug bite stick, wipes, lantern, plastic bags to hold the wet muddy stuff, unless you want it in the car on the way home. Don't rely on the other den muthers to bring everthing. Be prepared!



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Hip flask

Hip Flask. if it comes down to beer or a tent, go for a tent, but bring you a little somethin' somethin' on your hip.



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Easy access to your car

You first mistake was getting involved in the scouts in the first place. Potentially your second would be not being able to get to your car and out of there when it all gets to be too much.

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Suggestion

Buy this book! It's called Camp Out. It's meant for older kids, but parents are more likely to get something out of it.
........................
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Tim E
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Quote:but bring you a little

Quote:
but bring you a little somethin' somethin' on your hip.

I believe the BSA has a policy prohibiting a little somethin' somethin' at events..... :-)



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Quote:I believe the BSA has

Quote:
I believe the BSA has a policy prohibiting a little somethin' somethin' at events.....

Well, in that case.... sfoster, you're on your own, bud. Have fun- let us know how it goes!



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Musical Instrument?

I brought my Ukulele to my family reunion and we had a terrific time, we played every song I knew and a whole bunch that I just faked, so if you play the Guitar/Harmonica/Tuba I would throw it in, along with one of the many fake books (Rise Up Singing has hundreds of songs everyone knows). I think that I would agree not to pre-bum on it to much, we have had some great times camping with the kids.

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SugarMamasBoy
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Forget the tent...

rent a stocked RV and have all the comforts of home. This will surely get you with the right attitude. Easy for those guys to say because they will be playing golf or out fishing while the wife watches the kids that weekend. If the RV is too much, check availability with hotels in the immediate area just in case the shit hits the fan. This is precisely what my "Don't Get Caught With Your Pants Down Camping Guide for Parents" advises for camping with three 5-8 yr old boys. And if none of this is within your budget, just go and have a blast with your kids as mentioned.



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Dry and Drier

1. Stay "dry." You were kidding about the beer, right? You freakin better not take beer to a cub scout event. I will personally kick your butt for that one.

2. Your number one goal will be to keep everything dry. Lot's of ziplock bags of all sizes. Trashbags too. Put your sleeping bag in a trashbag. The worst thing in the world is a wet sleeping bag. Put anything that could be screwed up by dampness in a bag. Take extra socks and extra underwear. Consider thermals. Take towels and keep in bags. Also, remember that if you are wet, you will get really cold. Night time is the worst to be wet. Poncho, Poncho, Poncho. Waterproof boots. Scotchguard is lame, but better than nothing.



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Bring a backpack.

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Dirtilus
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Camping

I go camping all the time with my sons (5, 3, 1). Stay dry and bring inside games, Uno, cards, etc.., make sure you have extra snacks and snacks. Even when it rains we play outside in extra boots and ponchos. I really like marshmallow shooters. You can bring cut up PVC and make a bunch of shooters there. My 1 and 3 YO always go behind us and eat the used ammo. If I know its going to rain, i bring an extra big tarp and tie it to some trees to sit under and play games. Gameboy and a portable DVD palyer have saved my sanity more than once.

Good Luck,
Dan



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Don't forget to bring a towel.

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sfoster
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Thanks for the suggestions

But I guess I have to apologize for my apparent angst. I'm not as "panicked" about this camping trip as I guess I came across. The emotions that you probably sensed were from that day: my trying to start this thread while dealing with one sick kid, one whiny kid, car problems, and a lasagna (from scratch, thank you very much). And then the phone was ringing off the hook that day, too, I guess. One of those days. So I was trying to do too many things and didn't take enough care with my post, and it didn't come across like I thought it would. My bad. Lesson learned. (And NO!, I wasn't ignoring my kids just so I could get on the computer. One was sleeping and the other was shooting squirrels out of the tree with his .357.)*

Anyway, as for the suggestions, thanks! I am going to Border's to look for that book tomorrow, ticktock. It looks great.

• Knowing that Dirtilus and Bellyman can survive -- that is inspiration. :-)
• Instead of a ukulele, can I just bring Uke?
• And don't worry, JP, ain't no likker in my gear. (Just tea.) I may joke, but I wouldn't disrespect a group like the Scouts like that.

In any case, can anyone think of a place -- a little central-ish-ly located in the U.S. -- where a bunch of SAHD's from around the country would go camping in the summer? Would anyone want to? Just a thought. But BPD brings the backpack and Will brings towels for everyone.

(* Yes, I'm kidding. You just don't give a .357 to a 5 year-old! It was a .38 Special.)



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